Ok, so dd is in the process (again) of getting her molars, first ones. I know they come up and down before they actually cut. When I put my finger in her mouth I can feel it just there kwim. And so she's got a bit of nappy rash because of it, fair enough be a little bit cranky. But for the past 2 weeks it has been spawn of the devil I swear! Some days she'll be ok, bit grizzly. DD's godparents live next door (we're in a unit complex) and "J's daughter is 4. The other day, while we were both in our own homes mind you, the girls went tantrum for tantrum all day. By time our hubbies got home we were ready to just run for the hills. It was the hardest day i've had to date with her. But it wasn't just that one day. We're going through this thing atm where it's like she's got her bloody ears painted on. Just NOT listening. Now my child knows what "no" means and she has for a very long time. When I am telling her not to do it she just looks at me and smiles. I swear if I have to say no anymore today I will scream. I am exhausted. She climbs on the bloody glass coffee table and I tell her to get down, get off etc nope she doesn't give a rats and continues to do it it's driving me bonkers. And dinner, christ don't be started on that one! After every meal I have to pretty much sweep and mop just her area because why would we eat the food when we can just throw it on the ground?! She knows she's not allowed to, cause once again we're smiling while we do it. Then there is the pinching and the biting and the HEADBUTTING i swear I thought she broke my nose yesterday. PLLLLLEEEASSSE tell me I am not the only one going through this, is it just a phase?