I loved the way she fell instantly in love. How she helped with everything and was so happy to be a big sister who had to look out for her little sister.
I loved watching her get nappies and help get clothes. From the day DD2 was born DD1 just boasted about her to everyone including our animals.
Honestly I can tell you that DD1 did none of what people are telling you. She loved having someone else around. In the car, DD1 would sit and tell us what DD2 was doing, ie: shes moved her head, shes sleeping, shes cold, shes hot, she needs a toy. It was so cute. And actually she still does it today!!
The one thing that has stayed with me is that DH and I swear that they have special smiles and language with each other. When DD1 walks into the room, DD2 has this amazing smile that is only for DD1. They have always 'talked' to each other even if we have no idea what they are on about.
Also DD1, taught DD2 so much already. In DD1'a world she taught her to smile, to laugh, to roll over, to sit up, crawl etc. Thats what we told her and she was so happy to play such an important role in her sister's world.
She even tells DD2 everything that is going on.
As you can see I just love the relationship between my two. I love how special they are to each other. I love that the other DD1 cried when DD2 went to the dentist. There are so many more positives compared to negatives. Some people are just kill joys! I would ignore them!
ppl are awesome arent they!!
FWIW, when we bought DD2 home, DD1 coped the best out of all of us! she took to the big sister roll like a fish to water and it was a very long while before we started noticing signs of jealousy. even then they arent major things.
she didnt relaps into nappies, she didnt scream and fuss for our attention when we were looking after the baby, but she sureloved to help out!
it'll be amazing hun, u wait and see
We went out the week before and got DS to choose a present for his new sister, and there was a present waiting for him from her at the hospital.
I was really careful to meet DS in the hallway and we all walked in to meet the new baby together. I didn't want him to feel he was replaced... but that he was a part of welcoming a new addition to our family.
He is the most delightful big brother - sure they quarrel but there are no jealousy issues. I guess preperation (making him wait for things before baby arrives etc) and ensuring his routine doesn't change too much all helped I think.
I got told all of those things too and it really scared me. Gosh some people just like to point out the negatives but the positives outweigh them by a mile.
DD adored her brother from the first time she met him. My biggest problem was making sure he didn't get smothered to death by her hugs and kisses. She didn't go back to nappies or stop sleeping and in fact I think it made her grow up a little bit as she wanted to be the 'big girl' and not 'the baby' anymore. It really is awesome! And even if your DD is a little jealous then that is completely normal and understandable and won't last long, I bet they will be the best of friends
DD1 actually progressed with the TT'ing and went into knickers all day
DD1 is absolutely besotted by her little sister and gives her the best kisses and cuddles
DH and DD1 wrapped a present together for DD1 to give to DD2 when she was born, and gee she was a proud big sister when she gave it to her
DD1 get genuinely sad when DD2 is upset
DD1 tells DD2 it will all be ok A.... when she is upset
DD1 is helpful and loves being involved, opening the nappy bin, picking up her dummy, singing songs to her
DD1 was very impressed when DD2 gave her a present the day she was born, and special little gifts each time she came in (ie colouring book and crayons)
Loved the moment when DD1 met DD2, looking at her in the isolette, we opened the door and she put her hand in and held her hand..... awwwwwwwwwwww
Awww hun some people just don't know how to be happy about anything do they. Having the new baby around is so special for everyone! A few things that I have loved seeing...
The way they just adore each other more and more each day and the way Iz will say "Mummy, James is my best fwend today"...
The way she just wanted to cover him in hugs and kisses all day long when he was a baby.
When Iz would breastfeed her dolls because that is all she saw all day every day!
The way they both fit perfectly under each arm for story time and you can give them both big squishy huggles.
The way they are growing up together as such wonderful, beautiful friends and every day really is just priceless.
We never had any jealousy issues here at all, so it all just depends I guess! Good luck hun, it really is just awesome!
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hun some people just don't know how to be happy about anything do they. Having the new baby around is so special for everyone! A few things that I have loved seeing...
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