Firstly Maggie, don't feel guilty about calling DH, I am sure he doesn't mind either. This is a new experience for both of you and it definately does get better. Sounds like you are doing a great job with your DS. Does he like being wrapped? Reflux babies can take a little while to settle, maybe just wrap him, put him in his cot and see what happens. If he still cries, maybe just sit with him and pat him gently to sleep, maybe have some quiet music on or the radio (my daughter listens to talkback radio, all the chatting puts her to sleep!!). What about giving him a bath, breastfeed then try him to bed. Try anything and everything and see what works, as some will be better than others.

You have plenty of support here and always remember you are doing a great job