I must agree, Clarrie; other people telling me they had to fight their child to make him/her sleep does help me a lot. DS just hates sleep right now and I can't change that. We have the odd middle of the night playtime still, but it's getting better slowly. He usually just feeds and sleeps once I have him down for the night now (and "bedtime" can take almost 2 hours some nights, but that includes bathtime).

Lieby is such a wriggle-bum too, luckily he's a social creature so when someone new's admiring him the he goes all happy and cooing so I have very few "bad" comments even when he's kicking to high heaven.