It sure is a hard one isn't it!

I LOVE the drive idea!! Will give that a go when we have some time. He has full blockout drapes in his room and we have just purchased venetians as well to block out more light. It helps but he still knows it's light outside. I have tried the quiet time etc but he ends up jumping up and off doing other things. Would be such a dream if I could get him and DD to snooze at the same time.... I am sure I am dreaming though!!