My little boy of 2.5 just doesn't listen. He hears, understands and then ignores. And he will then say he did something naughty and wants a cuddle because he knows we are upset/angry. Sometimes it is. Just frustrating but other times dangerous like at swimming lessons when he runs off to jump in the pool befor dh is ready to go in with him or when he doesn't listen re: hold mummy's leg orthe pole while I strap your little brother in the car - he runs off nearly into the street. I do a sports class with him and all the kids are between 2.5-3 and DS is the worst in e group at listening - he just does what he wants even though he completely understands what is being asked of him and can do it. I had to keep him on my lap for the first 30 min of the 45 min class because he was being so disruptive. Then he participated quite well for the last 15 min. Any advice? How typical is this? When does it get better?