Saying No!!

[Nadine216]

F off!!!!! Oh there DH would just step in and choke the bat.

I hate it when ppl just grab bubs out of my arms. I especialy don't like my SIL's dad ... creepy dude!!! He LOVES holding babies and it does not help that he does not yet have his own grandkids. I would just hold dd/ds tighter and say, I'm sorry he needs to go to sleep now/just had a feed/have to get his diper changed (even if i just did it) ... and smile sweetly.

On the other hand... my MIL ALWAYS wait for permission to pick up ds. HE will be throwing a fit in his snug and safe and I'll be like "MOM pick him up" and she be like "Oh, can I pick him up, thanks" Some rules don't apply to family!!!

[shellbell3]

I've been in situations like this. I just take bubs and walk off and go somewhere quietly. Even if you have to go sit in your car to feed her peacefully.
I remember with Ash her crying being overtired and I'd get 'no she's bored' and the them trying to stimulate her when she is obviously tired! I had to pretty much just remove her from them and walk off without a word and went sat on my own to calm her down.
The HAB is great cause no one bothers you then, wish I had one with Ash, if they're in the pram everyone wants to get them out but in the HAB they leave you alone.