It is the 'head in the sand' syndrome Onyx! lol. I feel guilty for even thinking he's anything but perfect I was speaking to DF last night and he seems to think it's his emotions and not being able to communicate as yet as he doesn't talk. He takes him out to the park most days in his car (one of those little tikes ones with the floor as he can't push himself along yet, he is totally obsessed with it ) an he says he doesn't flap his hands once the whole time. He goes on the swing and he's fine. He says it's only when he's trying to tell us something that he does it. DF reckons he's been doing it less since he's been crawling on his hands and knees as he's now concentrating on something new

Thanks ladies