Seriously need some advice - newborn & 3 1/2 yo

[chody47]

Sorry, I have no advice, but I'll be in your shoes soon. I hope someone has some tips and things are better tomorrow.

[onthefly]

Yep, my son was hard work in the first 3-4 months! He was a bit younger than yours, but very similar. It's a hard adjustment for all of you. Try to be kind to yourself and him and make some allowances, but also keep up whatever routines, boundaries that you may have in place. It can help to really try hard to set aside time for just you and the toddler - maybe when baby is sleeping (does baby sleep?)