Tan you are an amazing mum and unfortunately these little kiddies of ours are hurting themselves and are too quick for us. They are small, agile and can dodge us.
It's great to hear that Izzy is okay and please stop beating yourself up. I found Olivia sitting in a pile of washing powder eating it. I freaked out too. No matter how much we watch them we can't watch every second.
You are doing a brilliant job. Have a rest this arvo and have a beautiful cuddle with your gorgeous little princess.
Aaaaw hun! Don't beat yourself up! Accidents happen, and sounds like she's doing fine... sending you big Horrible scare to experience, so you look after yourself too!
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There's another one for good measure, Tan! Take care of yourself. It sounds like Izzy is just fine. I think falling off things onto their heads is kind of like a rite of passage for kids, isn't it?
Just look after yourself and cuddle her lots today - for your sake, lol, more than hers She'll no doubt have forgotten about it already!
Hey. Don't beat yourself up!
It happens all the time. Especially at her age when they are big enough to wriggle uot of your grasp, but small enough that they don't understand that it will hurt til it does.
She'll be fine.
My DD1 gave herself a big googey on her forehead once. She was just 3. We were crossing the road & when we were between the cars on the other side she let go of my had & ran to go up the gutter. Anyway she tripped & her forehead hit the gutter instead. Hard.
I tokk her straight to our gp. He checked her over & gave me a list of things of things to keep an eye on & a big dose of panadol.
20 minutes later she was jumping on my bed!!
She looked like she'd been hit sideways with a cricket bat & had 2 black eyes for 6 weeks after!
You know that I think you are a great Mummy. As others have said.. they are just too quick for us. You weren't to know that this would happen hun. It's noone's fault. I'm glad Izzy is ok. I think you should eat some of that choccie ice cream to make you feel a little better
Try not to beat yourself up - as everyone else has said accidents happen
You did the right thing by calling someone for advice... not sure what you were told, but will stick my two cents in here
I for the next 4 hours watch her and her behaviour, i would wake every 1/2 hr as that is what we would do in hospital.
you need to watch for increase drowsiness, clumsiness (more than usual) and confusion... hard to pick at this age, but you know your baby more than anyone else so you will notice these changes.
For the fact that she cried straight away - be reassured, its a good thing.
She will possibly have a headache, not necessarily a bump or a bruise and may want some more cuddles later.
Try not to worry, this happens more than you probably think and it doesnt make you a bad Mummy, this is just the start, soon little ones are going to be climbing trees and furniture and all sorts and they will fall and hit their heads or break bones (we all have done it ) and it will usually be when you step out of the room or turn your head.
:hugs:
Hope you are feeling better soon - try not to be too hard on yourself
Oh matey, when something happens like that it is the WORST feeling I know...you poor thing.
She will be fine honey, sounds like she is pretty much back her cute little self already. They are just so tough, and those little heads of theirs are designed to withstand all the rough tumbles that come along with growing up!
Take some deep breaths! and have nice cup of something warm to settle your tum.
You are a gorgeous mummy.
SJ - thanks so much hun, that is very similar to what the lady on nurse on call said but they said 2 hours ! As if Im not going to watch her ALL DAY!!!! Heehee! She really does seem to be fine - running around laughing and playing. They told me to wake her after an hour of her nap - I went in after 20 mins and she stirred and then I went in again after 40 mins and she looked at me and went back to sleep! Once she was awake she was her normal self again. Thanks again everyone - it is just so hard to not blame yourself with stuff like this.
Tan, I could have posted the exact same post (and probaby did LOL!) when Jack fell down the stairs while I was pg with Tom. I was hysterical and so, so guilty. I think the problem when you are pg is it just slows you down enough that what used to be catching distance, no longer is.
These things happen hun. Every child has accidents. We are the lucky ones - these falls were distressing but there was no harm done. She will have forgotten all about it long before you will. But down the track you will realise that this is just one of things that happens and isn't your fault. Big hugs hun.
Tan - you are so far in the opposite direction of a bad mother it is hilarious! You are a GREAT mother!
Don't stress about it (I know, easier said than done!). Sammiejane gave you great advice - exactly what I was going to write.
To make you feel better, DD is always falling and smacking her head. Even head first. She's nose dived off the bed at least half a dozen times (the most recent being this morning ), off the couch, and even off the change table as well! It's life. It's not like you didn't try to stop it or that you threw her off it. You did everything you could to get her to be safe (by sitting rather than standing), you tried to catch the falling missile, you checked her over immediately, you prepared to take her to ED and when noticed she was ok, called a professional advice line (much better than sitting in ED for hours!), you are watching her to make sure she is ok, and you feel bad for her accident. What's wrong with that? NOTHING. She will have a great many more mishaps throughout her life and you can't stop them all. Sometimes they need to have accidents and make mistakes so they can learn from them... even the ones that cause a booboo.
Make yourself a cuppa and watch Izzy running circles and relish in the beautiful, talented, courageous girl you are raising.
MG
P.S. The runs was probably the stress - not uncommon
If it makes you feel any better I fell over on the concrete while I was carrying Alex yesterday. He didn't get hurt but considering we were by the side of the road and I don't know what happened (I think I may have blacked out momentarily) I was pretty scared. And I have a bleedy scratched and sore arm and leg to boot!
Hon, if it makes you feel any better, I managed to 'beat up' Euan not once, but twice, yesterday - first when he toppled over sideways and smacked his head on the tiles. He was surrounded by cushions in all other directions than the one he fell in and I was reaching around to grab another cushion to put next to him when he fell. Never mind that he'll sit unsupported for twenty minutes at a time. He screamed for about five minutes, so I knew he was OK (it's when they go quiet that you have to worry).
And then I was putting on a wrap so that we could go for a walk and he was on the bed, I was standing in front of it so that he wouldn't wriggle off, I turned my head for a second to check the back of the wrap in the mirror and he crawled backwards off the bed and landed on the floor. I looked down and he was sitting on the floor looking up at me with this look of 'mum, weren't you watching, that was fun'. Luckily he landed on his bum, but it could have been a bit nasty.
Oh, and then DP put him to bed and forgot to put the side of the cot up, so all it all it was a good day for child safety around here.
You are a wonderful mum and Izzy is OK. It's scary when they push the boundaries of safety but it's what kids do.
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see that shows that everyone KNOWS you're a great mum & deserve hugs!!
She'll no doubt have forgotten about it already!
DD has fallen down stairs and knocked herself out, fell off our bed at 3 months old head 1st
), off the couch, and even off the change table as well! It's life. It's not like you didn't try to stop it or that you threw her off it. You did everything you could to get her to be safe (by sitting rather than standing), you tried to catch the falling missile, you checked her over immediately, you prepared to take her to ED and when noticed she was ok, called a professional advice line (much better than sitting in ED for hours!), you are watching her to make sure she is ok, and you feel bad for her accident. What's wrong with that? NOTHING. She will have a great many more mishaps throughout her life and you can't stop them all. Sometimes they need to have accidents and make mistakes so they can learn from them... even the ones that cause a booboo.
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