My stoooooooooooopid MIL told me on my first Mothers Day that I was 'spoiling' my baby by giving him too many cuddles (AS IF!!)
I was told by a midwife in hospital, the day after my DS was born, that the reason he was unsettled was because he was being held too much and I should put him in the crib and leave him alone. He wasn't even 24 hours old!! Yep, it was our fault he was unsettled, nothing to do with the fact that only a few hours before he was still snug and warm inside me and had been evicted two weeks early when he wasn't quite ready, because I had PE.