Oh hun, I feel your pain!! My DS was similar in that I always had to feed and rock him to sleep from very little to at least 6 or 7 months. He's always been an excellent night sleeper, but during the day he was a terrible little man! I could never put him for a nap drowsy as he would always wake and cry, and I didn't like to put him down fully asleep, but that's what I always ended up doing. And I would always feed him to sleep too which I didn't like doing also. He used to sleep for 20 minutes at worst, and 45 min -1 hr at best (not many of those days though ) only ONCE a day. All I can say that I'm sure she will improve one day! Have you had her checked for things like silent reflux etc? GL darl, hope it all improves for you both soon