What does she weigh Hun? I had a similar thing happen, we took dd to the gp and he freaked out and gave us a referral to the pead for failure to thrive. I took her back to the hospital and had her weighed by a midwife and the gp had weighed her wrong and she was fine. That aside, some kids are meant to bs small! Someone has to bs on theoerr end of the scale.

With the food thing,I went on a bit of a weight gain frenzy after the gp issue. I made up batches of vegie slice with cream, ricotta AND full milk powder added. I also checked labels and bought the fattiest yoghurt, cheese etc I could find. Dd's always been an okay eater though which I put down to baby led solids. I recommend keeping a food diary of food offered and food eaten, that way you can show what's happening.

Don't worry about other people thinking you are neglectingher, you know you are a great mummy!