Sorry I disappeared.

Sure enough, he woke about 5 minutes after I posted this thread but I'm glad to hear all of your experiences as I was this close to calling an ambulance about two hours ago as he did it again. The Hospital in the Home nurses tried to get me to feed him 4hrly, 100-120mls because they saw him hoover that back one time. In reality he's more of a 3hr feeder, 60-80 mls which is still way more than he needs to be consuming in a day so at least I know he's eating enough.

So much stress - especially when most literature is geared to full-term babies. It's enough to make you doubt every single judgment call you have to make to the point where you just end up paralysed.