Or lack of, I should say. I am sooo tired! I can't believe this child's sleeping pattern. Ok so we've started giving her Rescue Remedy (Bach's) before bed time because in recent weeks you put her in her cot she SCREAMS the house down and I mean screams makes herself gag, the whole works. Now we give her the rescue remedy and there's barely a peep she goes to sleep. But every night at some point she's in our bed and I just can't take it anymore. I know there are a lot of women who co-sleep and that's great, I am not judging that at all, but for me personally I just can't do it! Dp is 6"4 as is and we only have a queen size bed and Ava is a bloody bed hog. We end up sleeping like a H most nights. My back is kiling me from being on the edge of the bed. If she wakes up before I go to bed like 11pm and it's not a simple as me going in and just giving her a rock and her going back to sleep, i'll get her up change her nappy and give her a drink and she'll go back to sleep. But come 1/2 am in the morning she's awake again and is just put back in our bed. Please tell me some ideas to help her sleep through. I've tried everything. Night lights, no day sleeps, one day sleep, baby massage, pushing her bed time back till 7.30 pm, reading before bed etc etc.. I need sleep please give me some ideas guys