can't say much more than what barb said (her posts are always spot on and amazing)

have you considered getting a baby swing? i highly recommend the fisher price cradle swing, look on ebay. i wouldn't have survived without it. for weeks it was the only place i could get her to sleep during the day, not ideal, but you do what you do to survive.

hang in there he is so new to the world try not to expect too much, i know easier said than done.