Sorry, I've been busy over here & missed this post. I can totally understand the desperation you feel. Matilda slept through the night the first time when she was around.... 3.

She had silent reflux as a bub, she also had recurrant ear infections and tonsilitis. She lost weight and no one took us seriously. We had tests for lactose intolerance and other things. She didn't sleep.

It was hell on earth. Matilda is also extremely active and was climbing out of her cot at 16 months. So she had to go into a junior bed. That helped things, it took her a few weeks to get into it but it helped her having a pillow.

We also found that she was allergic to milk near 3 yrs old and it took 4 weeks off milk for her to start sleeping. The milk allergy caused her reflux. All her reflux symptoms and issues and tonsilitis and weight loss.... everything.

So now I generally suggest getting allergy tested as well. Just in case, cover all bases.

Good luck its hard work.