Thanks guys I so appreciate any suggestions.

Firstly when I was still BF (did so till 16mths) we both went diary free for 6 wks it changed nothing. But maybe doing allergy testing is a good idea, how do we go about that???? Also she already sleeps on a pillow.

As for the Osteopath she see's a chiro once a month and has done since very early, but maybe we should try osteopath instead, funnily enough someone from my mothers group was talking about a good one today.

Tonight she managed to sleep for 1 hour, my DH is currently trying to get her back to sleep, but every time he puts her down she crys, its taking longer and longer to get her down. She sleeps usually 30 min then awake, then it takes 30 min to get her back to sleep and this goes on till we go to bed and she can come in with us. I am just so tired of my life being about running back and forth to her, that is our life we dont have anything else.

Do you think putting her straight into our bed instead of the cot may help her???? I am just so out of ideas and nothing ever changes it just gets worse....

Anyway I'm feeling sorry for myself - sorry! Thanks for all the great advice its so nice to have help.

J x