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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Townsville
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    sleeping between 5pm-11pm??

    Hi all!

    So my DD is 10.5 weeks old now and she does not sleep between around 5pm and 11pm-12am!! Not matter what we do, feeding, a bath, rocking etc, she just will not sleep. It's getting quite frustrating because I am stuck on the couch feeding her the whole night and can't make dinner etc... I am starving and it's 9:20pm and I haven't had dinner, DH was at soccer training so I have just been sitting here waiting for him to get home so I can eat something!!

    I know there is arsenic hour but this is just silly!! Why won't she sleep between these hours????

    She usully only has 2 day naps too...

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    i think the 2 day sleeps is the answer..shes overtired darl, do u have a sling?

  3. #3

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
    8,631

    Yep, what Olive said... My DS is 8mths and he has only just started doing 2 naps... He was having 3 at about 6-7mths.

    How long is she up for during the day, before she goes for a sleep? How long does she sleep for?

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Townsville
    2,832

    well this is how it usually goes:
    5am wake up for feed
    8-9am wake up for feed
    1.5-2hrs later have a nap for around 2-3hrs
    awake for 1.5-2hrs then another nap for about 2hrs
    once she wakes up after that second nap I have no hope of getting her down no matter how hard I try!! So I don't think she is over tired cause I don't keep her up longer than 2hrs...

    I wrap her and put her down even if she is still awake for those 2 other naps and she usually puts herself to sleep.. but after she wakes in the afternoon she will not settle herself and won't go down after being rocked etc.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Townsville
    2,832

    honestly it is doing me freaking head in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Why won't she sleep???

  6. #6
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    it's the time of day - just because she puts herself to sleep earlier in teh day doesn't mean she can at that time. Try something different in the afternoon maybe. Do you have a sling or wrap you could put her in? Some babies that's the only way they'll sleep = pop them in adn jiggle away for a bit. You can also get yourself some food while she's in teh sling too.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Townsville
    2,832

    I just bought a sleepy wrap so I can use that, except she is usually crying.
    I might give it a go tomorrow.

  8. #8
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    Feb 2010
    Newcastle
    1,151

    Bex on those 2 day naps how many hours does she sleep for???

    K sleeps pretty much 1 day nap for like 4hrs and he goes to bed at 7-8pm of a night will cluster feed then will go pretty much 7 possible sometimes 8 hours of a night now and is awake at 6-6:30am will play for a few hours then naps then wakes again and pretty much is awake until 7-8 unless he dozes off to sleep himself while having tummy time or so fourth!!!

    if i remember correctly with DS1 i got told babies at this age should be sleeping around 15hrs a day!!! Something maybe to look into (but remember not all babies are the same)

    Stay positive things WILL get better it wont always be as hard as this xxxx

  9. #9
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    i think at that age she should only be up for around 90 mins and that includes feeding/changing etc..

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Townsville
    2,832

    Well i have been sitting in our room in the dark feeding her since 9pm and she is still sucking and not sleeping. I thought by having a quie dark room she might feed to sleep but its taking as long as normal!

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Nov 2010
    QLD
    394

    I had a bit more luck with my DD tonight. I realised after reading someones suggestion about tired signs I had completly forgot to look for them in DD. I really picked up her signs today and she slept sooo much more today, and I didnt have a night of full on screams. I'm in shock and have more time on my hands then I have for ages lol

    anyway just thought I would share, tired signs and swaddling worked for us today. How is your DD is going?

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Townsville
    2,832

    tired signs and swaddling work during the day most the time.. but after 5pm nothing works. If I put her down she screams so hard she vomits...

    She is currently still feed sleeping at 12:12am! BAH I wanted to get some sewing done tonight but I guess not!

    YAY for more sleeping for you UP2!

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Townsville
    2,832

    2am and still freaking awake!!!! She just keeps crying if she is put in bed. I know she is tired cause she will fall asleep to only wake up like 5mins later crying...

    I have to drive to gold coast in the morning and i am so freaking tired...


    Sent from my iPhone so sorry for the spelling and punctuation!!