I found moving Eliza out of our room really upsetting, the first night was horrendous, I'm still laughing about having the monitor to my ear all night. My suggestion would be to put the cot in your room for a short time to adapt to the different sleeping arrangement they tend to be alittle lost in the big cot. And then when you feel comfortable with that move her when you feel is the right time for you both
Bec