Sleeping for you vs sleeping for others

[MummyNaomi]

I think at care too because all the other kids are doing it they just follow suit yanno? Mine are the same, cuddle, rock or pat to sleep with me at home, much more independent at care. I think too there is so much more activity at childcare that they get more genuinely tired at care then they would at home in a a 1on1 situation. DD sleeps a little shorter at care, but goes to sleep easily, whereas at home she'll take 20-30 mins to go to sleep but sleep for 2-3 hours.
Both my kids have eaten much more varied at care too, they are more likely to try a food when everyone else is eating it, rather than Mum urging them to try

I think to that at home with Mum they are at their most comfortable and will sometimes act out cos its a safe place. Where as at care they are more likely to go with the flow

[Floweryfields]

Totally normal, parents tell us this all the time. From completely different behaviour to the point where we just can't imagine the child ever doing those things, to sleeping when they never do at home, and other things. It's a variety of things, the 'everyone's doing it' is definitely a big one, different people, different perceived expectations, etc.
I have told parents (when discussing tantrums and tears over nothing in older children) that it is definitely easier for us as the tears do not effect us as much as when they are your own.

We also have children who sleep less than at home and things too. A big difference is often how many bottles a child will drink - especially a younger toddler, who can be a bit finicky with drinking bottles given by others. Most of the time they are just fine though.