I have LOST the joy of DH telling me he's away for a week - that was only fun when I didn't have someone else to take care of!

I have GAINED the script to Cars tattooed on my brain (DS has been ill in bed all week insisting on non-stop Lightning McQueen and me with him).

I have LOST stealing DH's clothes - DS has a keen sense of ownership

I have GAINED some wonderful women as friends - IRL and on-line