i have to agree with every other great mum who has replied to this .... every thing they said is so true !!! esp. about the tiredness lol

even with battling with anx and depression , motherhood is the strength to keep me going , each day my son confuses me , surpises me , upsets me ,and teaches me and i know he loves me and that is the best feeling in the world ...

we get to hang out all day together , and i get to watch him grow and learn , even if i have only managed to get 1 load of washing done , i dont care , because ds is happy and healthy ...

they dont stay small for long , so hold them when ever you feel like it ... be your own judge on your baby , a professionals advice can help , but if it doesnt work , then dont do it ...

i can never get enough of cuddling my baby and teaching him .... and i love it when he is sick , so i can soothe him and calm him back to health , all in my arms ... i dont care if its 2 am and he is screaming , he wants mum and dad and its the best feeling in the world ...

some times ( RARE) he is very knackered and after a bottle hes asleep in my arms ... i just sit there with him looking at his peaceful face and his soft skin, and i think of his smile .. and his cheekiness ...

I didnt think i could love another man other than my husband so much , until my son came along , love is so strong it hurts .... and bonding doesnt happen over night , but it will happen
and i think no matter how tired i am , i wouldnt trade this for any thing ....