the only thing thats realy getting to me about it all is, if she was willing to tell me im over feeding my baby and all the rest, (i hadnt even sat when she started)
what on earth is she saying to the mums with there first bubs who are only learning the ropes or the mums on borderine deppression? i can laugh it off, but not everyone would be able to, especialy coming from someone who is ment to guide you and help, kwim??
im just wondering if i should take it further, just in case she has a problem with that tounge of hers.... or just let it go?
It's so hard because a lot of them seem to conform to the standards in the book and don't look at each child individually. My DD was 7lb 9oz born and now she is tiny. She is 16 months and weighs under 10kg, so is such a tiny little dot. The last MCHN I saw though was awesome and looked at my build and said that DD will be fine and looks like she will follow my side. DD eats A LOT but isn't chubby whereas DS ate a lot less and was a chunker!! (DS was just over 10kgs at his 9 month checkup) At DD's 9 months check up I was told to start her on cows milk and to reduce her breastfeeds WTF?!
Take it all with a grain of salt babe and don't let her get to you. You know your bubbas and if there is something wrong, so go with what you know and discard her thoughts.
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