im getting desperate with DD2 (2 yrs) no matter what time i put her down i.e 6.30pm and DD1 at 7pm, or like tonight both together because i thought it might help (BIG mistake) i know have both still awake at 7.30pm with DD2 screaming, constantly calling out etc... i can go in her room at least 20 times before shes goes to sleep, i lost it with her tonight, ive tried a few different things and nothing is working, im deperate. she is also waking during the night, most often around the 4-5am mark and again im in and out of her room several times. im actually hating going to bed atm
anyone have any ideas for me??

oh she still day sleeps for around 70 mins and shes not ready to drop it as shes tired my midday most days