Thanks Ambah........I will pass on the link NeverPlan sent me to you too..........look out for an email from me......

Well, I have sorted out Olivia's room. Clean sheets on the bed, a new basket full of her favourite soft toys, sorted out the bookshelf and swapped a load of books up for another load (we have so many, I tend to hide and then recycle IYKWIM)

I have printed out a star chart & coloured it in using texters, and have burnt a new/not scratched copy of Peacebaby. I have installed a night light and set up a new bedside lamp.

I have also made a room spray with lavendar oil.

I AM A MUMMY ON A MISSION!!!!!

Aside from all the practical things, we are also going to do bedtime differently, so she feels "topped up" with Mummy and Daddy time. Hence the new books. I am going to allocate 30 mins for reading/wind-down after her bath. At the moment it tends to be rushed as she mucks up so much I get impatient and probably rush it. And I like putting Charlie to bed, and if Olivia takes too long, I don't get the chance, but I have come to realise that she needs me more than he does at the moment, so DH can see to Charlie whilst I just spend the time with Olivia..............

So pray for me girls, that my mission has a bit of an impact on Olivia...........