I do Christy, I really do, and I realised how ****ty I was being about it, and then realised SHE can't make the changes, I have to, for her, and connect with her better, despite being knackered and over it....probably the thing that made me realise this is that we were BOTH ending up asleep every night with a "black cloud" over us........me being ****ty and frustrated and her being confused and frustrated. Hence my Mummy on a Mission yesterday.........it is only baby steps, but hopefully I can make her feel more secure? Gradually?

The foot massage thing........I read that only yesterday in my aromatherapy bible.......Valerie Ann Wormwood......she really recommends it to make toddlers feel sleepy and relaxed, and I giggled, thinking of you & Miss Matilda...........but I shall be trying it tonight!!