Kelebek, i would say the wrap is definately a sleep cue for my DS. That and i feed him all warpped up in the rocking chair before each sleep. Not until he falls asleep but he definately relaxes in my arms and gets sleepy. When we were trying no wrap i'd still do the same but he wouldn't relax as much. Still falling asleep wasn't always a problem but the night waking was.

gypsy79 we are kind of opposite to you. Day sleeps are ok, he'd still sleep fairly well but night sleeps he just kept waking or half-waking and whinging in his sleep. He's sleeping so well again right now being wrapped and i suppose my main concern is that we're both getting some quality sleep. I'm hoping that one day he'll just decide he doesn't want it and there won't be any transition needed. Do you think it's possible

As long as he's happy i'm happy, thanks for your help ladies