Thanks guys SOOOO much for your suggestions - we are going toy shopping this afternoon. Although she borrowed from her friends house this morning a doll that cries and you give it a bottle (i would prefer a dummy, so my kids don't think babies are all fed from a bottle, but you can exact stick in a removable breast now can you?? although my brother (24) has a stress ball that is a soft squeezable boob complete with nipple - maybe i should borrow that *lol* )

Anyway, she was in 7th heaven walking around patting it - so i might look for an all-in-one doll, and might also get a magna-doodle and a glow worm... We don't have those toys, and DS 3.5 will still love each one (he loves dolls and babies also)

And looks like i will be going this Sunday also - as it turns out my DS is also having an operation (grommits) next monday!

So 2 procedures in 1 week... when will i get a break???