Swimming Lessons - now or later?

[Smoke Jaguar]

I would risk the colds (you'll find he won't get any more than if he doesn't go swimming) - swimming is super important now to learn if you're in any way going to be near water during his childhood and teen years. The sooner the better. After about 6 months they start to lose the dive reflex - it is infinitely harder to get a child to put their head under water and feel nice about it if you don't get him/her doing it by 12 months (I'm being really generous with time frames here, because often parents don't like to hear that they've left it too late). It's primarily about safety and confidence in water. By 18 months, my kids have known how to turn around and swim back to an edge in a pool. It makes swim time fun, and also gives me a few moments more peace of mind.

[beansbeans!]

I would risk the colds (you'll find he won't get any more than if he doesn't go swimming) - swimming is super important now to learn if you're in any way going to be near water during his childhood and teen years. The sooner the better. After about 6 months they start to lose the dive reflex - it is infinitely harder to get a child to put their head under water and feel nice about it if you don't get him/her doing it by 12 months (I'm being really generous with time frames here, because often parents don't like to hear that they've left it too late). It's primarily about safety and confidence in water. By 18 months, my kids have known how to turn around and swim back to an edge in a pool. It makes swim time fun, and also gives me a few moments more peace of mind.

Agree! Swimming is soomething I make sure our girls always do. Its so important. Our girls swim all year round, and if they do get sick, its not the swimming lessons that are the cause. Its not that hard to get make-up lessons if you miss a lesson either.

[Tuesday's Child]

I would risk the colds (you'll find he won't get any more than if he doesn't go swimming) - swimming is super important now to learn if you're in any way going to be near water during his childhood and teen years. The sooner the better. After about 6 months they start to lose the dive reflex - it is infinitely harder to get a child to put their head under water and feel nice about it if you don't get him/her doing it by 12 months (I'm being really generous with time frames here, because often parents don't like to hear that they've left it too late). It's primarily about safety and confidence in water. By 18 months, my kids have known how to turn around and swim back to an edge in a pool. It makes swim time fun, and also gives me a few moments more peace of mind.

We didn't start swimming lessons for DD until 13-14 months (for various reasons). She went under during her second lesson and has no issues with it. She looked shocked the first time, but didn't cry or gulp lots of water either. Do you have the option to pay as you go? At least to start with until you know how it's going to go.

[BlackCat]

Also cheack with the swim school ours will actually make up lessons due to illness where notifcation or drs certificate is provided. We preferred Winter lessons as there were a lot less children in the classes which meant more one on one time with the instructor. Fwiw, DS has had more illness from daycare in the last month than he has from swimming in the last two years lol.

[Mad Scientist]

We didn't start swimming lessons until just before DD1 turned three. She wouldn't put her head under at the first lesson but next lesson she was swimming! She was moved up after two lessons to the proper swimming class. I'm not boasting about how good she is at swimming. I'm just pointing out that if you don't have the chanceto get them into swimming lessons until later its not the end of the world. I believe it's important to get them used to water but I've also found that my DD2 is over confident now in the water. She's just turned two. Sure she can swim to the side but I'm not hugely confident she could save herself if she fell in the water. She's more likely now, after having swimming lessons, to jump in the water without us watching which scares me to no end! I wouldn't worry too much if you do delay the lessons until after winter. My girls haven't got sick from swimming and I don't think the risk is any greater than going anywhere else that has a lot of people in the one place eg shopping centre. But he's still young and with your DH, maybe it's better to wait that little bit longer?

[NaeNae]

Um, with all due respect, colds and flus are caused by viruses and not swimming pools or wet hair.

Your child is more likely to get sick (and has done so) from being in Child care as all the kids are in such close quaters, the swimming lessons are small groups and the babies cannot really interact with each other because they cannot crawl all over and share spit on toys the way they do on land.

If you were seriously worried about bub getting bugs then I'd pull him from the Child care centre rather than not take him swimming. But thats just my opinion on the matter I just wanted to clear up any misconception that swimming in winter causes colds and flu. I want to slap people when they tell me I shouldn't go out with wet hair coz I might catch a cold ... its nonsense!

Our swimming place charges us $10 a week. This inclused weekly lessons and access as amny times to the pool as we want. We have missed out on classes because I have been sick or DD has slept in but in all honesty I take her on another day so she still has some water time.
In the classes they teach them to blow bubbles, kick their legs, return to the side of the pool, jump into the water, go under water and lay back on their back (like floating) its a 30 min class and they really rush through the activities so I spend an extra hour with DD reinforcing the activities through play.

I didn't start DD until this year so she was 14 months. Mainly because I didn't think she would take to it but gosh you should hear the commotion when it comes to "get out of the pool" time

[butterfly_warrior]

Personally, I'd wait.

Not everyone knows what it is like to have a small child and a compromised immune system. I do - it is HELL!

Sam is two - and shoot me, but he hasn't had swimming lessons yet, and it's still likely to be a while. I've heard of so many of my friends' children getting constant ear infections and other bugs - that have all stopped when they are pulled out of swimming lessons.

I just can't take the risk of Sam getting sick more often than he does. If he gets sick, I get sick. If I get sick, I can't take my medication. If I can't take my medication, I can't walk. I can't care for him.

You may not agree, but for me the ability to care for my son on a day to day basis is far more important than swimming lessons!

BW

[NaeNae]

Not everyone knows what it is like to have a small child and a compromised immune system. I do - it is HELL!

Isn't it her hubby who's at risk? I dunno maybe I read it wrong. I think the baby has been ill coz he caught the bugs at the child care place?? ear infections are one thing and they are not contagious (had them all my life and no one has caught one off me), gastric bugs go around and can be picked up anywhere. I was under the impression the OP has said she is worried about colds and flu and swimming. I am merely pointing out you cannot catch those viruses unless you are swapping spit or are in particular close quaters and not from taking a little one swimming

[butterfly_warrior]

Still, if there's bugs in the house, it's not likely that Caramello's DH can avoid his own son and avoid catching them.

The thing with compromised immune systems like this is that stuff that most people wouldn't normally catch, we can. To the extent that I am advised to wear gloves when changing my own son's nappy after he has immunisations. Things that aren't a bother for other people can become a huge deal for us.

BW

[Nai]

I think if you are concerned then wait until your DP has a less compromised immune system. If your DS is already picking up bugs it is most likely that he will miss lessons anyway. At 8months old I don't think 10 weeks waiting is going to have a massive impact on his overall level of swimming ability. There are plenty of activities you can do with him in the bath at home or at a heated pool if you want to take him yourself but not commit to the full weekly lessons. I am happy to help you if you want some guidance in what to do with him.

[Mad Scientist]

Um, with all due respect, colds and flus are caused by viruses and not swimming pools or wet hair.

Viruses are still contagious. All it takes is a sneeze or a big glob of infected snot or spit in the pool. I think the issue for the OP is whether it's ok to wait to start swimming lessons as her hubby is immunocompromised. I'm pretty sure she knows what causes colds and flu especially in her situation. Good to hear you've come to a decision caramello. If you change your mind in a month there's nothing stopping you from starting him then either x