It feels like she just hates being home and wants to be at daycare instead of home with me
Oh hun, I can imagine it would feel like that sometimes, but I can bet my house on that not being the case!

She may just not be hungry. Or maybe she prefers to have her big meal/ dinner type meal at lunch?
Childcare nights we generally just do sandwiches or something simple because they've already had their big meal at childcare.

I think for now, just do whatever gets you all through with minimal screaming and frustration. It's most likely a phase that will pass. At the moment dinner time is just a really stressful time for all of you, just wing it and release the pressure valve for a little bit. When you think she's ready, just casually try to reintroduce proper dinners, if it doesn't work out, leave it and try again at a later date. As long as she's getting good food into her during the day, she'll be ok.