I hear ya!!

DD has never really seemed ready for one day sleep (14mths) but she has occasionally had one day sleep with no real problem - yet other days she absolutely needs two.

It is doing my head in - I have no idea what is going on but I just go with it. If she is grumpy and rubbing eyes after being awake for 3hrs, down she goes. If it is more like two, down she goes. I just take each day as it comes...



Hope she settles soon for you!