hollo - the list of ingredients of menu items should be available in the kitchen even if they didnt know they should have been able to tell you!! (i'm not saying they do have this just that they are supposed to) thats appauling imo i worked in childcare and you needa be so careful with stuff like that geez thats a big stuff up and even if i knew them id still be reporting it imagine if she did have a reaction? or another child with a very severe allergy had a reaction its better for them to get in trouble for it now so it sticks in their mind and they dnt do it again!!