little mr was 21 months when miss came home. Dh only home for 4 days. agreed only do what you can do, i cooked heaps before so had food in freezer only had to do pasta or salad etc.
asked peeps to bring fresh fruit bread ann dmilk instead of gift for bub- helped heaps.
i also would nap adn put them both down at the same time aroubnd 1pm they both slept for 2 hours and i slept during that time- didnt care about house etc jsut slept.

most important- i put a sign on the door saying if you haven't called.. i'm not answering hte door i have a newborn and a toddler!!

LOL