chody, I've started sending him articles to read, but I honestly doubt he'll read them. I don't know about whether he'd listen to a professional, but I'm willing to try it if we can't resolve the situation ourselves.

MadB, you're probably right on all counts. He usually does bedtime because when I start telling him to do things differently he just yells at me to leave, so I have given up trying. I will need to work on it.