Just wanted to say that I get the whole depression thing. It can mean that making any headway with ANY issue (and it sounds like you have a few) is impossible. I hated being on the other side of it with DH, and I ended up giving him an ultimatum to get help. Which he did, reluctantly. When he started to feel better, 2/3 of our issues 'disappeared' and most of the others were easy to resolve - DH was horrified and devastated when he came to realise, mostly on his own, how he'd been treating our relationship, family and I. Can I respectfully recommend that treating this be your no 1 priority?
House cleaner, just for a couple of hours a week (and yes, when he complains about the money, you can tell him the alternative - he helps)??
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