MBear, There is just no way he will lay down with me at the moment...He is just full of life and cant sit still!! Even as a newborn he didnt sleep much thru the day.. On the day he was born, I have a photo of my OB holding him, and he has his eyes wide open!!!! I have tried laying with him but it doesnt seem that easy...Maybe he will change soon, but I will persist with it and try to get into a lay down with Mummy routine...Will see how we go