Thanks so much ladies, sometimes it helps just knowing other people are going through the same thing

I think we could both definitely benefit from learning some strategies to better deal with the tantrums. I feel I cope pretty well most of the time when I'm on my own, but when DF has had enough he gets angry and we are sort of working against each other and then we end up upset with each when the situation is well and truly over I know the main issue is just that we need to agree on how to react/deal with them, but it's easier said than done when we have different ideas of what works best. *sigh* We'll get there.

Thanks again