I have been to many countries where malaria is an issue, and never taken malaria tablets and never been infected. I think the precautions you have listed sound good.

I was hoping to go to europe for a wedding when my bub was 3 months and it ended up being too hard. The distance and multiple legs of transport (which you prob won't have) plus an unsettled baby made it too difficult.

A trip to a tropical island could be absolutely gorgeous for all of you, a pick me up after the first few months which can be tiring.