thanks webbmeg, sounds so good. ive heard some say that bubs sleep well there but once they come home, they are back to square one.
oh and i forgot about meals being cooked and getting all the rest and no housework!
im just looking fwd to having some sleep and 3rd person to help with bub if he gets unsettled at night. dh and i are doing now but it's draining us. he's started to wake up at 2am ish and not settle till 4ish.
thanks so much!

skye - maybe your mchn can suggest something else?