thanks all for the advice
she actually likes lying on my tummy... just not on the floor.. and the CHCN told me that for tummy time to be effective it needs to be on a hard surface.. ie not on my bed ( like we do ) or on my tummy ( like we do) I think i'll just continue these methods.. I dont blame Aneta, I wouldnt want to be on a hard surface trying to lift my head up either it hurts your ribs! ... silly nurse