Thank you ladies for your kind words and advice!

We actually live with the in laws(out the back in a granny flat) so i know he gets along fine with them, i think im just worried because there is not a set time for these things lol. I hopefully will have a much quicker labor this time( Logans was 15hours) but if i dont i guess i better prepare him first. (He has started to get to the 'clingy stage', where he is happy- so long as he knows where i am.)

With the jealousy, i guess i wont know till bubs arrives, but im pretty sure he might have a little problem with sharing his "boobie" lol. (Unless he decides to wean himself). Im thinking i will stick to the routine i have and do everything for bubs in between. That way Logan wont get too 'out of place'(well hopefully).