Urgent! Secondhand smoke and bub

[Charlotte91]

I know. She stinks of smoke. I hate it. But, I can't really say she can't hold her at all. I'd love to, tho!!!

[Teeki]

I know. She stinks of smoke. I hate it. But, I can't really say she can't hold her at all. I'd love to, tho!!!

I would most definitely say she can't hold her. Unless she's wearing clean fresh clothes - not smoked in - and has washed her hands. That would be a minimum. Your mil will know how bad smoking is - everyone does these days. Surely she won't love smoking so much that she'd choose it over a relationship with her granddaughter? Not that she won't have a relationship with her, but her smoking may restrict it. She wouldn't want to negatively affect her granddaughter, I'd hope she can hold off smoking while she's around