your not alone there DD2 was really good until about 4 weeks ago. She is the same will go to mum or DH but as long as she cant hear or see me
I have managed to leave her with mum a few short times because mum says she only grizzles when I get home.
I dont think parents make clingy babies because DD2 is my 3rd and the others werent clingy. I think its just they way some are. I just try to see it as loving the extra cuddles because she will be off and independent crawling and walking soon( if I can put her on the floor to learn ) and then we will miss this I think.