Hi Sherie

I understand totally what you are going through. Our second child was just like this for the first 4 or so months of his life and it was a very stressful time for the entire family.

We spent a lot of time at the paeds/hispital and he was on relux med, special formulas etc, but in conjunction with the medical side of things I used and still do use a CD called Sounds for Silence that uses white noise and environmental sounds to calm the baby - a lot of the sounds are like a radio off station and a heart beating. It calms our little boy within minutes and has been my saviour - he sleeps all night with it on and I have a copy in the car as well as it calms him when we are driving. If you do a search on the CD name there is a website you can look at that has a heap of info on the CD.

Best of luck and my heart goes out to you.