Thanks x

I've spoken to the OT and Speech before about it, but they didn't really have a lot to offer.

I try to keep them separated, but Tristan loves playing with Brendan, which is great until Brendan has had enough of playing with him and pushes him away/over/lashes out at him. Brendan will lash out and then go and hide somewhere and chill out.

I've tried sensory toys and techniques (banging toys, jumping on my bed (we don't have a trampoline... yet) and things like that) but they don't help with the violence