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  1. #1
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    Jun 2008
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    Not weird . I know plenty of other mums who seem quite content to keep having the same gender.

    I love having both - but TBH if I had had a girl first I probably would have been happy to only have girls iykwim? I'm kind of glad I had a boy first cause I was always a bit worried about how I'd go with a boy, but it turns out little boys are pretty awesome too .

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    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
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    I don't think it's weird at all but although in a similar circumstance (only brothers - 6 to be exact) i was actually hoping to have a boy but as DD2 is our last 2 girls it is lucky they are tomboys

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    Jul 2008
    Melbourne
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    i don't think that's weird! i'm kind of torn - i'd quite like a girl but if we have another boy, that doesn't worry me. i think i'm destined to have boys

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    If you think its weird, then I am weird! hehe cause I am so verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry happy that this one I am carrying is also another girl!

    Although, ask me again when the teenage years hit and I might have a different view!

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    From my experience of 3 little girls (5yrs, 3.5 yrs, 1.5 yrs), i love the fact they play in the same way together and are so close - at the moment!! Ask me again in 10 years!!!

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    Not weird. I thought I was having another girl after DD but turns out it was a boy - but man these lil guys steal your heart in a totally differnt way! I wouldnt change my pigeon pair for the world... just as you would not chnage your 2 girls for the world either!

  7. #7
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    Mar 2009
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    Definitely not weird! Before I found out this one was another girl, I kept changing my mind about girl or boy, boy or girl... they both seemed like really good options; both had certain pros and both had their cons (still a bit nervous about 2 teenage girls in the house haha) but I'm pretty stoked to be having 2 little girls.

    I actually sometimes think it is a little odd that the ideal family is one of each, who decided that? It seems more about the parents being able to experience both than being of any huge benefit to the children, I think all child combinations have good and less than good aspects. It is just me and my brother and while it is a really great relationship and there were definitely bonuses to having a brother, it wasn't all magical haha and I look at my best friend and her sister and see the same; lots of things I was jealous of but different sibling issues to contend with that I was glad I just saw from the sidelines