Is it weird that...

[Heaven]

...I would like another girl?

Everyone tells me 'oh, I hope you get a boy next time!' Umm...actually I'd like another little girl . I have the perfect name picked out!!
We are totally hopeless with boys names! With both our girls (and the other name we have) we have thought 'yep, that's it, that's the perfect name for them'. Can't find a boys one that I love. Bugger. Bet I have a boy next now with no name!

Am I strange for wanting another girl when I have 2 already! Seems most people in the same situation want the other gender next time. But I can't get enough of little girls, they are soooo sweet! I blame my parents, they gave me 4 brothers and I've had enough of boys!! LOL.

Anyway, just my ramblings, lol, sorry you wasted your time reading that now?

[PumpkinZulu]

I don't think it's weird! I would be very happy not to have a boy...we'd like 3 children and I'm actually really worried that #2 will be a boy, because then #3 could be a boy and then we'd have two boys, ahhhh! If #2 is a girl then I can relax, LOL!! I love having a girl, all the clothes are so sweet, and I feel a very strong bond with my daughter. DH would like at least two girls as well. I can't really describe it very well...but I definitely don't think you're weird for feeling that way

[trishalishous]

not at all weird! we didnt mind for any of our kids. now we have one of each, and get congratulated on how clever we are

[RhiChiChi]

Umm, no I don't think you are strange! I have many day dreams about when we have our next which sex would be better in our family dynamics, names etc.... I know when we fall pg again, people will assume we want a boy b/c we have already have a girl - assume away.

[Sterla]

Not weird . I know plenty of other mums who seem quite content to keep having the same gender.

I love having both - but TBH if I had had a girl first I probably would have been happy to only have girls iykwim? I'm kind of glad I had a boy first cause I was always a bit worried about how I'd go with a boy, but it turns out little boys are pretty awesome too .

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

I don't think it's weird at all but although in a similar circumstance (only brothers - 6 to be exact) i was actually hoping to have a boy but as DD2 is our last 2 girls it is lucky they are tomboys

[sloane]

i don't think that's weird! i'm kind of torn - i'd quite like a girl but if we have another boy, that doesn't worry me. i think i'm destined to have boys

[~~Snoogans~~]

If you think its weird, then I am weird! hehe cause I am so verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry happy that this one I am carrying is also another girl!

Although, ask me again when the teenage years hit and I might have a different view!

[RoyaUK]

From my experience of 3 little girls (5yrs, 3.5 yrs, 1.5 yrs), i love the fact they play in the same way together and are so close - at the moment!! Ask me again in 10 years!!!

[ElleJay]

Definitely not weird!
TBH, I kinda wanted another boy, and now we're going to have one of each, I know that I won't be able to budge DH on #3 because we'll have one of each.

[onthefly]

Nah, it's not weird.

[Kazzo]

Me too! We have just decided that we will have a 3rd one day and whenever I say this to people first thing they say is 'to have a boy?' Well no, just want another baby and I know girls so another would be just perfect for me. After finding out the sex both times with DD's we also decided that the next one will be a surprise. I think I could handle people asking 'bet you hope it is a boy' more then 'bet you wish you were having a boy' (as if I would be dissapointed) if we did find out it what we were having and it was a girl. ITMS

[Olive]

not weird....im the same (not that we are having any more) both DH and i feel the same, we'd love another girl

[~Hestia~]

I don't think it's weird at all! We'll just be having the two kids and I was hoping this one would be another boy actually. Mostly because I have so many nice boy clothes already and I have all the boy toys And seeing there is only a couple of years difference between them I think they'll be great mates!

I will admit since finding out we are having another boy I've had the odd pangs about never having a daughter, but I love my little guy and I'm certain another is going to be awesome!

[beansbeans!]

nah not weird at all, I would sprout to be a little girl (would be happy with either, but secretly hoping for a third girl).
Its not that I dont want a boy, its just I would like another girl.
Must say regardless of gender, I will love this little one all the same. And Im sure the girls will too, oh and DH

[OceanPrincess]

Woooo, #3?? Yay Heaven

Nah, you're not weird. I kinda wish I'd had a girl cuz if we have a third, I'm with PZ - what if we end up with two boys???

But then again - my little man is perfect. He is completely different to my DD and I know that DH loves the fact that we have one of each. Ya know what, so do I!

So whatever we have next, I'll be blessed either way.

And so will you

PS - I hear ya on the names. We STRUGGLED so badly with DS. If we have another boy, God help us. Literally!

[OceanPrincess]

Woooo, #3?? Yay Heaven

Nah, you're not weird. I kinda wish I'd had a girl cuz if we have a third, I'm with PZ - what if we end up with two boys???

But then again - my little man is perfect. He is completely different to my DD and I know that DH loves the fact that we have one of each. Ya know what, so do I!

So whatever we have next, I'll be blessed either way.

And so will you

PS - I hear ya on the names. We STRUGGLED so badly with DS. If we have another boy, God help us. Literally!

I laugh at myself.

I love my boys. If we'd had another girl - faaaar out, that would be crazy. One DD is enough!!!

Guess God did help us with his name. It is a special name - my grandfather's name

[luna moth]

I want another girl too. Just have to get DH on board....

(That's this week. Next week I might be back to just wanting two!)