DD1 just turned 4 and i still do the same as i always have, read a book, cuddle, lay with her till she falls asleep, she doesnt take long. now we dd2 (16mo) we all lay in bed together. then i move dd1 to her bed ( a mattress on the floor by our bed) when they are asleep. i wish they would want to do this forever, but dont know if they will want mummy laying in bed with them when they are 10...or 12...0r 16....but i guess il just do it till they dont want to anymore.