For the last few nights Chelsea has been getting harder to get to bed. When she knows its bed time she becomes really hard to handle, she starts chucking tantrums, running away from me, throwing things and telling me she doesnt want to go to bed. So i put Jasmine to bed (and Chelsea helps) then we go into her room and we read a book, give her the dummy, her toy, tuck her in, kisses, love yous etc.....

I turn off the main light and shut her door again saying Goodnight Chelsea, Mummy loves you and ill see you in the morning.

Then it begins.....

Screaming, throwing things at the door, knocking on the door, kicking the walls.

I leave her for a little bit then go into her room and repeat it all over again (minus the book reading). It happens again and again.

Finally after a few attempts i go into her room and lay with her in bed. I ask her whats wrong and she ALWAYS says Tell bubby zoucy (Zachery) to go away

is that meant to mean?

Is this why she is refusing to go to bed....all because of him? Ive never had this problem before, not until now. It breaks my heart when she says it.

She has also taken to turning her small light on every night and i have to go into her room and turn it off (and hope) i dont wake her once she is asleep.

how do i fix this 'bubby' problem...and the light issue too